I had been considering this for a while….being a unicorn, I mean.
I realised that I was bisexual a few years ago when I was in my mid-30s. My husband supported and encouraged me to be with women from time to time. I did, quite happily.
It was hard to find someone for more than a one-night stand. I really wanted a girlfriend on the side. Everyone I found online seemed to only want a unicorn. Most appeared to be looking to appease the male’s desire. For me, I needed the woman to want this. I didn’t want to be with another man. But I couldn’t find the right fit, a friends-with-benefits girlfriend.