My confession by Dee Michelle

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I had been considering this for a while….being a unicorn, I mean.

I realised that I was bisexual a few years ago when I was in my mid-30s. My husband supported and encouraged me to be with women from time to time. I did, quite happily.

It was hard to find someone for more than a one-night stand. I really wanted a girlfriend on the side. Everyone I found online seemed to only want a unicorn. Most appeared to be looking to appease the male’s desire. For me, I needed the woman to want this. I didn’t want to be with another man. But I couldn’t find the right fit, a friends-with-benefits girlfriend. read more

Masturbation films, our top 5 hot male solo films for May

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Because May is Masturbation Month, we thought we’d share a round-up of five of our fabulous male masturbation films where our leading gents indulge in some delicious solo pleasure.

Masturbation is such an intimate act and to be allowed to watch, to have access and permission to indulge in a voyeuristic fantasy, is a unique experience indeed. We’ve collated some of our favourites to get you amped up and ready for your own masturbation time. Setting aside time for yourself and your own pleasure is not just a sexy treat, but really, an essential part of your self-care routine. And let’s face it, we’d be remiss if we didn’t include a few tips and ideas to inspire that desire. read more

I have wanted to kiss girls for years but I am not a lesbian

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I’ve wanted to kiss girls for about 30 years. But as I also wanted to kiss boys and that’s what was expected of me, that is exactly what I did.

Boyfriends in my teens, one long term relationship, then a year of fun fucking anything with a cock, before I met my husband. Yet I’ve always had girl crushes, but never felt I could explore them or kiss them, until now.

I’m among a growing number of middle-aged (40+) women who are discovering new sides to their sexuality. But why have we waited until now to push these personal boundaries? read more

Why embracing female pleasure is the key to a happy life and self-love

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Let’s talk about masturbation. If you have a vulva, this is a loaded topic. It is often rife with messages of shame, discomfort, and a general lack of knowledge.

According to a 2020 survey by SKYN condoms, 83 per cent of people equate intimacy with sex and want that with a partner, yet the orgasm gap still exists. Only 4 per cent of women and vulva-owners report having orgasms through penetrative sex on a consistent basis. Most of us, regardless of gender, want our partners to be satisfied during sex. So why aren’t we all coming? The problem lies in a three-pronged, interconnected set of issues: sex education is startlingly undertaught, porn has become default sex education, and as women and those raised females, we aren’t taught to prioritize female pleasure or our sexual wants. “I was always taught that sex was about pleasing a man and I spent so many years sleeping with dozens of shitty partners,” remembers Melissa Vitale, 27, a New York-based publicist. “If I had masturbated and embraced female pleasure more in high school it may not have taken literally 14 partners before I had my first orgasm.” read more

Women and sexuality

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When we think about women and sex or women’s sexuality, one of the things that we are told most often and clearly is that women are not very sexual. The reasons we are given for this idea vary widely: women are from Venus and therefore romance is more important to them than sex, so the only reason that most women deign to have sex is to secure love and romance. Therefore, women have no interest in things like casual sex because they can only enjoy sex with a romantic connection. At other times, our society tells us that the reason that women are more interested in love than sex because women simply don’t experience as much pleasure during sex.  As a result, we are told that women need to be gamed or tricked into sex. read more

Fantasise about a hot threesome? Here’s 8 reasons why you really should

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In this study, over 4,000 people were surveyed and 89% named a hot threesome as their top fantasy. Straight men preferred to have two female lovers and straight women did not express a preference either way.

So just what is the appeal of the threesome fantasy?

Threesomes have been around for as long as people have been having sex, and even depicted in ancient art. Here’s an image from Wikipedia 1st C  – and 510 BC  It is still seen as slightly taboo or in some cases even damaging to relationships, but it’s our belief here at FrolicMe that there is absolutely nothing wrong with a good old session of ménage-a-trois musings. read more

My Confession by Positive

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This is my story of how I went from a very dull, almost non-existent sex life to having some great excitement and fun.

It all happened about three years ago.

I’d been married for 30 years, I won’t say happily, and in a really low place with no sex life to speak of and wanting to see what was out there. My wife was the only women that I’d had sex with to that point, but it had become infrequent and very vanilla and boring when it did happen. read more

I’ve been a bad girl… when you think you deserve a sexy spanking

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Have you ever felt that thrill running down the back of your neck when you’ve done something a little naughty and got away with it? Like perhaps you didn’t wear your knickers to work, or ‘forgot’ to close the curtains while you were getting changed. Maybe you didn’t put the money in the meter at a parking spot but were somehow disappointed not to see a ticket. Did you watch a saucy film on your phone on the tube, not quite hiding the screen? read more

My Confession by DeSailor

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Noisy! It was very noisy.

There were a lot of people at our place, from both our families. We couldn’t even sit together.

Since the whole thing was not something that was planned, it had put a spanner in our idea to spend the day snuggling and fucking and cuddling. And we hadn’t had sex in a few days, so both of us had been looking forward to alone time.
And there we were, her wearing a sleeveless top, looking sexy as always, me in a T-shirt and shorts, sitting at opposite ends of the room, locking our lust-filled eyes at every possible opportunity. read more

The Chaiamo, 10 speed classic vibrator from Rocks Off

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Here is the Chaiamo from Rocks Off,  a beautiful looking vibrator. I am not a huge fan of phallic-shaped sex toys on myself (though I absolutely love watching them being used on others – especially this ) so for an insertable dildo, this ticked a few boxes for me. Sleek and elegant, almost the shape of a new lipstick, it is stylish and versatile.

The Chaiamo vibrator packaging is classy and simple and the toy itself is fully submersible and rechargeable. Delightfully, it comes ready charged so the excitement of having new mail is not interrupted as you eagerly unwrap the gift to yourself. It comes in three colours, deep crimson, black and turquoise. I chose turquoise and love this colour for a sex toy. read more

Erotic audio – 6 reasons why you need to get down and dirty with some aural pleasures!

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Have you listened to our sumptuous new erotic audio porn yet? Oh my, let yourself slip into something more comfortable (aka headphones) and let us talk dirty to you! Here’s why:

1. Intimate

Letting sexy words wind into your ear zone is intimate and tantalising. Someone talking dirty straight into your mind is a truly exciting and unique experience. The words snake into your brain, arousing all those juicy imaginative erogenous zones and can trigger physical responses too. Just relax and let the voice bring you to places of desire and pleasure, magnifying and expanding your own experience in a way reading can’t. read more

How pleasure apps are changing the way we learn about sex

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Pleasure. Intimacy. Self-love. Creativity. Exploration. What are the chances that these words are associated with your memory of sex education in school? Unlikely.

Sex education, if you even received any, is typically centred around contraception and the prevention of pregnancy and STIs. Of course, these are essential topics, but isn’t it odd that pleasure—something that brings humans joy—is considered even more taboo than the fear-mongering topics of pain and disease? read more

5 Erotic Lesbian Stories

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Frolicme has a huge library of erotic stories to complement the films that satisfy your visual hunger. Erotic lesbian stories can seduce you even further, enhancing your arousal, teasing and taking you down into delicious all-encompassing sensual experience.

As Amy Norton explores in this article, Lesbian Porn is a hugely popular genre for straight, bi, gay and simply curious women alike. Sticking with this theme we thought we’d share some sexy lesbian stories of sapphic sensuality for you immerse yourself in. read more

What’s the big deal with lesbian porn?

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The first pornography I ever saw was lesbian porn.

I didn’t go looking for it. It was 2006, I was sixteen years old and using my boyfriend’s computer while he was out at work. I noticed he’d left a tab open, went to close it, and… there on the screen was a full-on, hardcore girl-on-girl scene.

I couldn’t look away. I turned the sound right down (his parents were home!) and watched the entire scene beginning to end. I don’t think I masturbated to it, although I was definitely extremely aroused by the end. And that is how a three-year-long battle with my sexuality began. read more

How to Introduce Spanking Into Your Relationship

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You watched porn with a spanking scene you can’t stop thinking about. Maybe your partner smacked your bottom during sex. Or maybe you’ve read enough erotica, had enough conversations, and masturbated enough to know that you want to be spanked. But how do you bring it into your relationship? Where do you begin, and how do you do it safely in a way that still feels amazing?

Here’s what you need to know to introduce spanking into your relationship.

Think About What You Want

Before you can talk to your partner about spanking or any other kinky fun, you need an idea of what you’re interested in. No, you don’t need to be an expert on the topic, but it’s good to have a few ideas to share with your partner. So where do you get those ideas? read more

What do we mean when we talk about porn for women

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What do we mean when we talk about “porn for women”? Google it and you’re met with terms like “sensual” and “romantic,” “tasteful” and “erotic”. So far, so predictable. For the purposes of search engine optimisation at least, “porn for women” equals deep kissing, soft lighting, and slow, sensuous massage. Not that there’s anything wrong with any of that, of course. I’d happily take all three of those things on any given day. But it’s far from being the whole picture. read more

Medieval sex, what was sex really like In the Middle Ages?

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If someone says the words “sex history”, the Middle Ages probably aren’t the first thing that springs to mind. The term usually conjures up the old myth about Victorians inventing vibrators to masturbate hysterical women or images of Masters and Johnson finally applying a “scientific” approach to sexuality. After all, how can the overtly religious and misogynist world of the medieval period produce a sexual culture? And even if it did, what does it have to tell us in our progressive sex-positive society a thousand years later? read more

My Confession by Ellie

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I am a happily married woman, but (there’s always a but, isn’t there?) I have been having increasingly erotic daydreams about a male friend that I will call ‘Sam’.

I don’t know Sam well, and god knows we are very different, but I can’t get him out of my head.

I think that he wants to fuck me. I want to fuck him.

I can’t fuck him.

I am preoccupied with the idea that he has a stick of dynamite between his legs.

It would be dynamite for me, I would explode with pleasure, it would blow up my marriage. read more

Get a room, 5 reasons why you need some naughty hotel sex in your life

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Just what it is about hotels that make us think of hot dirty sex? Can we use a little trip away to spice up our own sex lives?

We say, yes, absolutely!

There’s something about being in a room where you are completely anonymous. No family photos stare out from their frames, no dirty washing festering under the bed, no pets reminding you over and over that they need to be fed. No, there’s just you, your lover (or lovers) and a night of complete freedom for some naughty hotel sex. read more

How porn can enrich your sex life, solo or with a partner

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There has been an uproar about pornography for decades. Since the advent of the internet and free or low-cost access to pornography, the uproar has turned into a crusade. Most of the press about pornography is negative though there is little evidence that pornography does damage on its own.

I am a registered psychologist and a sex & intimacy coach and I have spent the last 30+ years working with clients on issues to do with sex and relationships. I use pornography and erotica regularly in my practice and have always done so. People come for sex and relationship therapy for a wide variety of reasons. Some come because they have trouble with desire. Others come because the sex in their relationship is no longer satisfying or is non-existent. Others come for growth. Still others come for some type of dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, premature ejaculation). read more

Beginners guide to E-stim and Electrosex

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No doubt the term Electrosex brings up mixed emotions. On the one hand, we have the term sex—a fantastic and highly pleasurable activity. But on the other hand, we have the term electro.

Yes, electro, as in electricity.

Electrosex is all about using electricity for pleasure. It is a kinky activity that has its practitioners passing electrical currents through their genitals in order to induce an orgasm.
While the hair probably just stood up on the back of your neck at the thought of that, hear me out. read more

Orgasm denial – 5 reasons why you need to try it.

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Many years ago, when I first read about orgasm denial, my initial reaction was to furrow my brow and mutter “Okay … but why?”. Initially, I could not relate, I couldn’t get my head around why anyone would purposely not orgasm or be so cruel as to not allow their partner to come!

I was raised by a generation of women who asserted sexual liberation and autonomy in the social and political movements of the 60s and 70s. They had burned their bras in revolt and uprising against the systems and beliefs that kept people, especially women, small and quiet. The same systems and beliefs that expected women to not only barely participate in their own sexuality, but to prioritise their (mostly male) partners’ pleasure over their own. By the time I was of the age that I was having sex and orgasms. It had been well and truly ingrained in me that I, and I alone, was responsible for my orgasm. It was mine to have or not, to share or conceal, and mine to revel in. The idea that after all that had transpired historically, that I, or anyone of any gender, might give up this intimate pleasure to another seemed ludicrous! Until I tried it. read more

My Confession by Danielle

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This is my story, how I became a kept woman, not in the traditional sense of the phrase, but owned and controlled in the most beautiful way. I do not want to sound weak or pathetic and I definitely am not looking for sympathy. I am a highly educated woman with several qualifications in economics who chose willingly and happily to surrender body and mind to my mistress.

Six years ago, after a very successful internship, I secured a very sought after and well-paid position in a family run business, I was very proud of my achievement and worked diligently with the aim of moving on and taking my career further. This was until I met someone who would change my world. read more

Audio Porn – 5 hot stories to set your ears alight!

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We are delighted to announce the newest section of erotic delights at FrolicMe! Introducing our new Audio Porn page, for those wonderful moments when you fancy some aural pleasure.

Popping in your earphones and settling in for an auditory treat is a wonderful way to indulge in sexy stories. Nobody knows what sweet seduction is going on in your ears, but as you carry on your daily life, a whole world of erotica surrounds and consumes you, teasing you with delicious tales and sultry voices. read more

Sexuality and the Menopause – 5 Tips to Embrace The Change

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Menopause and Perimenopause are tricky times in a woman’s life. As a fifty-year-old woman going through it, I totally understand why it used to be called ‘The Change’ years ago. It feels as if your body is waging war on you. Interrupted sleep, hot bits that used to be cool, dry bits that used to be wet. The worst of it all, a foggy mind and moods that fluctuate so quickly that you’d actually be quite concerned about all of it. If you could, in fact, be bothered to muster up any energy… read more

Anal sex beginner’s guide to the joys of backdoor pleasure

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There’s been some discussion recently about scheduling sex and if that works. Does it just ruin the spontaneity? Or does it give time to plan, the mental foreplay adding to the spice earlier on?

One area that scheduling time for and planning ahead is a great idea is anal sex. It does require some preparation especially if you haven’t tried before or only do it occasionally. To know when it might be in store can really build up the excitement of the moment. read more

The importance of erotica – 6 reasons why you need this genre in your life!

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Erotica is one of the most underrated genres in literature. It is often scorned, left out of literary prizes, and often not seen as a true intellectual storytelling platform.

Well, I’m here to say that in my opinion erotica is one of the most important genres in literature. You can explore characters through their internal sexual dialogue in ways no other genres can touch.

The importance of erotica is that it can deal with the heaviest of emotions and bring them to the forefront of the psyche. It can help to unravel the complexities of being human with all its nuances and depths. read more

Skirt Club – The world of a private female members-only sex club

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Now living in New York after five years in Miami, Genevieve LeJeune, founder of the female members-only sex club event company, Skirt Club is not impressed by the cold. I talked to Genevieve about the rise in popularity for her female-only sex parties and we Skyped on a rather cool day in New York and a positively tropical one in Edinburgh.

Genevieve was first inspired to host female-only sex parties after realising she’d been treated quite badly at some mixed-gender events she and her ex-partner used to attend. read more

What makes threesomes so irresistible? Our top 5 ménage films

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For some, the allure of threesomes is tantalising indeed. Three hot bodies entwined in the most erotic way, allowing their animalistic instincts to take over, limbs entangled, pleasure shared… What a treat!

We have many erotic films featuring the pleasure of threesomes and multiple group action—the perfect way to indulge your ménage-a-trois fantasies. To watch the sexual connection between three people can be extremely arousing. If you are in a monogamous partnership, watching erotic films together can strengthen the sexual bond between you as you explore scenes that you might not try in real life, but certainly use in fantasy. Watching films together is a wonderful way of opening up a conversation around what turns you on and what things you might like to try. For many, watching or taking part in threesomes can actually enhance relationships and the erotic pleasure that can be shared. read more

What is mindful BDSM and how can it benefit me? by Franki Cookney

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“Being on the receiving end of a serious spanking creates focus, drowns out all the noise and pumps out happy hormones for better sleep and creative thinking.”

Depending on your sexual tastes, you’re either nodding enthusiastically right now or frowning in incredulity. If the latter then you’re not alone. In the past, you’d have been hard-pressed to find the words “mindful” and “BDSM”  in the same article, never mind the same sentence but now it’s being compared to meditation and tantra and there are even accounts of BDSM being used to help overcome sexual trauma. While no sexual activity should take the place of counselling or therapy, both scientific and anecdotal evidence suggests we are starting to tap into the everyday benefits of mindfully-practised kink. read more

Sex toy review of a wand massager – Make mine a Doxy

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If you’ve ever asked a sex blogger to give up their Doxy Massager, you’ll get some form of the phrase “From my cold dead hands…”

I myself am a long-time fan, my purple Doxy original has been kept carefully in the nightstand for over 3 years now. It is a powerhouse of a sex toy. It is more than a sex toy—it is also a sports massager, healing every part of your weary body.

It is not what one would term a discreet toy. Indeed, it is loud and proud, mains powered with a 2m long cable to ensure maximum pleasure without any charging or battery issues to stop play. read more

My Confession by John

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This is a true erotic tale of my first anal sex with my wife V, how it happened, and how many years later I still remember it. It’s a confession about being naïve, first times, and how mysterious some women are about their sexuality. But it’s also about some women, who won’t tell a man what they want in bed, and probably will never get it.

But V was my second wife, my first being a bit of nymph who would insist on getting her rocks off (and mine too) every night. SM was Portuguese and very easy to go to bed with. She was open to ideas, positions, options. We had great fun going page by page through The Joy of Sex. read more

Condoms go luxe with HANX

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With consumers becoming increasingly savvy about sustainability and lifestyle choices such as veganism, it’s only natural that the pleasure industries forge ahead with these ideals.

One such company is HANX—a luxury brand of condoms shaking up the market and bringing us a new perspective on the humble prophylactic.

FrolicMe caught up with the unstoppable young duo behind the brand.

Sarah Welsh and Farah Kabir have known each since childhood, meeting at school and remained firm friends. Despite choosing different career paths, Sarah in gynaecology and Farah in investment banking, both women had a keen eye for business and wanted to capture their entrepreneurial spark together. It was during a chance conversation over lunch one day that they realised they could work with each other to really bring something new to the sexual wellness world. read more

In praise of the cunt – as women reclaim it back

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I remember there was a time in my life when I’d shudder at the word cunt. It seemed dark and dirty, a slur, a nasty put down, the very worst thing you could call somebody.

It is a hard sounding word too, with its c and t – it’s usually prefixed by the word fucking. You Fucking Cunt.

I remember the look of horror and eye rolling from my mother if it was ever said in a film. I can’t remember it being used on TV much back in the day. I think it seemed to be a very Scottish or East End of London insult. A Ray Winston sound. read more

Rediscover fingering, it’s so very underrated

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Fingering is such an underrated sex act, often consigned to the memory of first time erotic fumblings or teenage shenanigans. Bizarre when you realise, that fingering can be one of the most intimate and pleasurable experiences you can have with another person.

It can often be forgotten as part of the sexual encounter—or even the conclusion of a sex session, especially in long term relationships, so how can we bring back fingering and make it fabulous! read more

WHAT’S THIS POLYAMORY THING REALLY ABOUT? BY AMY NORTON

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Polyamory is getting a lot of airtime in the media lately.

Five years ago, you could say “polyamory” in an average room full of people and get nothing but blank looks in return. (Believe me, I did. Many times.) A decade ago, this was even truer. But, having been featured in mainstream media as diverse as a New York Times article, a documentary by Louis Theroux and even a parody piece in The Onion, polyamory is, slowly but surely, becoming mainstream. read more

MY CONFESSION BY VINCENT V

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Coco, a long-time friend of my wife, Sugar, turned 50 recently. She is several years older than my wife but the two have been close friends since college.

We took her on a wine tasting trip to celebrate. During the trip, Coco told us that she was ready to turn the page on her life to finally spend some time on herself now that her kids were heading off to college.

Indeed, she was a busy mother when I met her almost 20 years ago. At that time, I had failed to really take notice of Coco’s attractiveness as she was just one of my wife’s college friends. Over the years, I started to appreciate her classic Italian looks: dark hair, brown eyes, slender frame, and beautiful brown skin. I also got to know and respect her as a loyal friend and a good mother. read more

SEXTOY REVIEW – THE WOMANIZER, A CLITORAL VIBRATOR

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The Womanizer Liberty is a clitoral vibrator that uses a patented airwave technology and suction to bring you a new kind of orgasmic experience. It’s a handheld device with what can only be described as a suction cup big enough to hold a nipple or your clitoris. The sucking portion fully surrounds the protruding part of your clit and creates an almost airtight seal so that the motors deep inside form a fluttering sensation as if your clitoris is being suckled. read more

WHAT IS ASMR AND WHY DOES IT FEEL SO AMAZING?

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ASMR stands for autonomous sensory meridian response and is described as a tingling feeling usually triggered by certain sounds. The sensations can resemble a rushing or the feeling that your nerves are being stimulated. It begins in the scalp and cascades up and down the body—resulting in delicious feelings of euphoria. ASMR is most usually triggered by audio recordings, sometimes with accompanying visuals. It can be as simple as someone whispering, stroking velvet or even pouring out dried rice onto a tray. read more

PUTTING A RING ON IT – THE DELIGHTS OF COCK RINGS BY PJA WOODE

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Rings have graced fingers for millennia. Digits just lend themselves to adornment—they are long, elegant and expressive. It’s only natural to add a piece of jewellery to them.

And you can read so much about someone’s personality by a glance at their hands. A statement ring on an index finger might suggest artistic flair, a thumb ring might suggest confidence. A treasured gold band or signet ring might pay homage to generations past. Rings tell interesting tales about their owners. read more

THE WORLD’S FIRST VAGINA MUSEUM

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Did you know that there is a bricks and mortar museum dedicated to the penis but no equivalent for the vagina? Well, all that is about to change. FrolicMe caught up with Florence Schechter—a science communicator, comedian and presenter who has taken up the challenge to redress this balance and bring a Vagina Museum into the world.

It was while researching animal parts for her Top 10 Animal Penises YouTube show, that Florence first became aware of how little research had been done on actual vaginas, whatever the species, including humans. She found a real male bias surrounding the study of genitalia with 49% of data all about the dick and only 8% dedicated to the vagina. The other 43% were combined studies. read more

MY CONFESSION BY MIKE

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This is my true story which evolved into a confession.

Back in the ’90s, I was the young manager of a hotel in England. As it was a small hotel my position was very hands-on, involving chores that would have been delegated to someone else in a larger hotel.

One such duty was to refill the mini bars which I hated doing except on this particular day. Having already checked the first few, I unlocked the door to room no. 5 which was vacant but due to be occupied that day. As it was only lunchtime, and not expecting anyone to have checked in yet, I walked straight in without knocking. read more

MAY MORE EXPLORES THE ROLE OF A LIFESTYLE SUBMISSIVE

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Domination and submission play was thrown into the public spotlight by the Fifty Shades of Grey series, which focussed on a dominant male and a woman who became his submissive. The sexual/BDSM implications of such a relationship were highlighted and consequently many people who read the books explored bondage with a D/s dynamic in the bedroom. But being a submissive full time is certainly not all about submitting for sexual pleasure at any given moment. Much more is involved. In fact, a D/s lifestyle seems to rely on more conventional ways to nurture a partnership. In this article, we are focussing on male dominants and female submissives. read more

TAKE ME TO THE EDGE – THE ART OF EDGING

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Edging is the art of being sexually aroused to the brink of orgasm but halting stimulation just before the actual release. By doing this repeatedly the pleasure sensations build and build making the final glorious climax a stronger and more satisfying experience.

The key is to stop at the perfect point so that you’re constantly ‘on the edge’ of orgasm, teasing for as long as you can before finally letting go.

Edging can be a solo pursuit through delaying orgasm during masturbation. You may do it already without having heard of the term. It can simply feel natural and lovely to keep riding that wave of almost pleasure then when the release finally comes, the orgasm is much more intense than a regular climax. read more

Further delay to the UK Government’s Age Verification

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I am delighted to hear today, that yet again there has been a halt to the implementation of Age Verification here in the UK. In an announcement made earlier today, the Department for Digital, Culture, Media and Sport (DCMS) have delayed yet again the introduction of Age Verification, legislation which was passed in 2017 and due to be introduced at the beginning of April.

This delay has come on the back of a catalogue of delays since 2017 which the government have implemented, whilst facing a growing number of issues and major concerns raised regarding the rights of individuals to privacy and the protection of personal data over that of finding ways of protecting under 18s. read more

MY CONFESSION BY ALEX RUTLAND

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It was early one Sunday morning, and I was awake. I decided to leave the wife in bed and go downstairs. We always slept naked whatever the weather, so I slipped on my lounge pants and a hooded jumper. I made myself a coffee and went through to the conservatory which is where I liked to spend my early Sunday mornings.

There was a chill in the air, and it was still dark outside, which had the effect of turning the windows into mirrors because of the light inside. Grabbing my tablet, I laid back on the sofa and pulled over a throw which covered me from my chin to my feet. read more

CHOOSING A SEX TOY … FOR YOU OR YOUR LOVER

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Sex toys are an amazing addition to your sex life, whether you’re single, dating, happily partnered or anything in between. But there are literally thousands of options out there on the market, and choosing can be daunting, to say the least. Never fear – this guide will take all the mystery out of choosing a sex toy, whether you want to get one for yourself, as a present for your partner, or for the two of you to use together. read more

CAN LUBRICANT REALLY TRANSFORM MY SEX LIFE? OH YES…

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Word on the high street is that we are finally realising the value of using lube. What was once only a product known by a single brand, predominantly viewed for medical needs, lubricants have now grown into a serious player in the world of pleasure.

Lube now offers sensual, luxurious textures that remove the friction and provide deliciously arousing glide adding an amazing dimension to self-pleasure and self-stimulation for women as well as men. The joys of adding lubricant to your pleasure play are beyond comprehension and any stigmas associated with bygone products are rapidly disappearing, so much so this is now a booming market predicted to be worth over £1 billion by 2022. With a greater focus on wellness and personal pleasure as well as providing enhanced purer natural organic ingredients they are offering far wider appeal. read more

MY CONFESSION BY B

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Observations… being the observed.

From the safety behind a veil, within the heavy fabrics in a frame that filter out the outside world, I stand proud and watch…. waiting for someone’s attention to participate for the pleasure and for the sexual thrill.

As I prepare myself naked by slow, gentle half whispered strokes, anticipation creeps into my senses waiting for the sound of femininity, the sound of heels against the heavy pavement. A car draws up and parks opposite, I hide from full view now but yet a shadow ajar through heavy fabrics to see who will emerge from the vehicle. A young woman gets out the car with a loud slam of the door; I like the long flowing hair and blouse slightly undone augmented by the display of long elegance of legs leading the eye to heel. I confidently pull back the curtains just enough for you to hopefully glance a show of naked masculinity stood proud and erect. read more

Auntie made a man of me

I had had very little contact with Aunt Mari as a child, principally because my mother was a twisted vindictive bitch. When my uncle came home from the army intending to marry Mari, his childhood sweetheart, he was concerned about the stories he had heard of women playing around especially with the American troops who had been stationed nearby. So Uncle had asked the Old Bitch if she had heard any rumours about Mari. As Mother later said to me “It wasn’t my business to tell him what she’d been up to” and had said nothing. Uncle went ahead and